Mum and Dad took me out to lunch, and we ate in the car, and then..."We know about your cutting." So yeah. I'm going to be getting counceling from a cool lady at church, and yeah.
*groan* I didn't tell them, and I don't really want to go to counceling. But I'm afraid if I refuse to go, they'll get more worried and take extreme measures.
Like I said, it's really difficult (at first) to talk to your parents about stuff like that. My motto has always been "suffer in silence" but there are times when you need to speak up.
Katy, I know you don't want to go, but do. I didn't want to either, but I'm so glad I did. "In a multitude of council there is wisdom."
We're all praying for you, dear. God will use this to make you a shining example of His mercy! He certainly uses me as an example of His grace and mercy. Were it not for His grace, I'd be dead - literally. I am just so thankful you know the Lord in a personal way! He will get you through this, sweetie!
Hey girl!! I had such an awesome time tonight! I can't write long, but I wanted to say I love you! You make my day everytime I get to see you!! Be blessed! Steph<><
Nuthin' to be ashamed of. Go to the counseling and allow God to work thru the counselor. Assuming your parents were snart enough to get a Christian. Will continue to pray for you. Wanting to kill yourself "a bit" can sometimes be a "teen" thing. These years aren't easy. Something to do with hormones, I think. But take it seriously enough to realize if there's a real problem. Your parents are probably "OK" aren't they? Not serial killers or anything? Can you trust them? You might be surprised at how much they'd understand. And judging by the dates you posted, it's been one month, not two. Who will you be talking to? Someone you like? Hang in there, you have people praying for you. Maybe even people who have been through similar experiences...... hmmmmm......
21 comment(s):
That's good.
It's always best to get help.
Thanks for doing that.
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TheEarthCanBeMoved, at
3:40 PM
*groan* I didn't tell them, and I don't really want to go to counceling. But I'm afraid if I refuse to go, they'll get more worried and take extreme measures.
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Kathryn, at
9:59 PM
i prayed for you all day today. i know God will work through whatever He puts before you
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Anonymous, at
10:01 PM
I love you :)
Stiffy<><
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Anonymous, at
10:45 PM
Like I said, it's really difficult (at first) to talk to your parents about stuff like that. My motto has always been "suffer in silence" but there are times when you need to speak up.
Katy, I know you don't want to go, but do. I didn't want to either, but I'm so glad I did. "In a multitude of council there is wisdom."
We're all praying for you, dear. God will use this to make you a shining example of His mercy! He certainly uses me as an example of His grace and mercy. Were it not for His grace, I'd be dead - literally. I am just so thankful you know the Lord in a personal way! He will get you through this, sweetie!
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Carey, at
4:07 PM
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Webmaster, at
11:39 PM
Katy, here are some verses that I came across while reading Psalms and Proverbs. You might want to memorize them, it's only eight verses.
Proverbs 24:14
Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.
Here is another you might like.
Proverbs 4:7
Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. However, it will cost you all you have, get understanding.
Here is another good one.
Psalm 89:7
In the council of the holy ones God is greatly feared; he is more awesome then all who surround him.
Okay, I am just going to give you a bunch of scriptures!
Psalm 111:10
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; and good understanding has all those who do his commandments; His praise endures forever!
Proverbs 1:7
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Proverbs 4:5
Acquire wisdom! Acquire understanding! Do not forget nor turn away from the words of my mouth.
Proverbs 8:11
For wisdom is better than jewels, and all desirable things cannot compare with it.
Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof bring wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.
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Webmaster, at
11:41 PM
*pats brother on back*
Katy, even putting these verses on an index card helps. I'll put a different verse in my backpack (or purse) each week to look at.
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Carey, at
3:27 PM
just so you know - you aren't alone...its not good, what you're doing, but you're not the only one in the world who deal with it...
good luck with the counseling.
http://www.cnn.com/2006/HEALTH/pare
nting/06/05/self.abuse.study.ap/in
dex.html
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Anonymous, at
9:46 AM
Hey girl!! I had such an awesome time tonight! I can't write long, but I wanted to say I love you! You make my day everytime I get to see you!! Be blessed!
Steph<><
P.S. towels!! They really work!
By
untamed, at
9:33 PM
Hey, it's been a week! You okay?
By
Carey, at
5:37 PM
Katy, it's been over two weeks now. what's going on? how are you doing?
By
~*Joyzey*~, at
11:45 PM
Is everything ok?
By
Carey, at
6:56 PM
Katy, are you okay?
By
Webmaster, at
11:27 AM
Ilove you-
Livvy
By
Anonymous, at
7:38 PM
Hey, can someone call Katy? I don't have her number and someone need to check on her.
By
~*Joyzey*~, at
7:16 PM
I agree! Something is not right!
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Webmaster, at
4:29 AM
Hey everybody! It's okay! She just went on a mission trip and forgot to tell ya'll. I'm sure she'll tell ya all about it when she gets back.
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untamed, at
6:39 PM
Holy cow. You guys are sweet. No, I haven't killed myself, though I've wanted to a bit. I'm fine, been to a choir trip and WorldChangers.
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Kathryn, at
9:51 PM
That's good.
I was starting to wonder
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TheEarthCanBeMoved, at
12:45 PM
Nuthin' to be ashamed of. Go to the counseling and allow God to work thru the counselor. Assuming your parents were snart enough to get a Christian. Will continue to pray for you. Wanting to kill yourself "a bit" can sometimes be a "teen" thing. These years aren't easy. Something to do with hormones, I think. But take it seriously enough to realize if there's a real problem. Your parents are probably "OK" aren't they? Not serial killers or anything? Can you trust them? You might be surprised at how much they'd understand. And judging by the dates you posted, it's been one month, not two. Who will you be talking to? Someone you like? Hang in there, you have people praying for you. Maybe even people who have been through similar experiences...... hmmmmm......
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Anonymous, at
9:23 AM
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